Happy - Answers

What is an Obstacle ?

Not a very hard to answer we all face them in quite many ranges in everyday life .

Interestingly dictionary answers it this way :

“An obstacle is something, material or non material, that stands in the way of literal or figurative progress”

It suddenly appeared to me that the answer is pessimistic …something which induces a low down feeling .......

Why not giving them a new perspective and follow them . I am going to add a new view point. And I will be happy if you all write up some new optimistic opinions or anything you feel like to share. I will add them serial wise .

• I think Obstacle is a way of knowing one’s hidden potential in order to win any Challenges or any hindrance

• I think Obstacle is the gap between living life and leading the life. [Contributed by life is good]

• Obstacles and our attempts at getting through it make us appreciate our lives much better. So I would say Obstacles are like stimulants to a beautiful life [Contributed by Arv ]

• Obstacle is the last test on route 2 success. I believe, if there comes, at some stage, an obstacle in my path then behind it lies surely my goal. [ Contributed by Arunima ]

• Obstacle is that bit of reality which trips you up when you're dreaming. OR it can also be that challenge you negotiate in order to realise your dream. [Contributed by Sucharita Sarkar]
  

• Obstacle--The bigger it is the bigger the reward is for getting through it. [Contributed by Lynne's Somewhat Invented Life ]

• Obstacles make our journeys worthwile..They are not stumbling Blocks rather stepping stones... [Contributed by The Rebel ]

• obstacles bring adventure to our lives and...also obstacles bring us close to God as we seek to his blessings in difficult times. [Contributed by its_me ]

• An obstacle is the difference in the ordinary and the extra ordinary..those who dont cross it are ordinary,and those who do are EXTRAordinary. :) [Contributed by sagarika]

• Obstacle = Extended Family [Contributed by Macadamia The Nut]

• Obstacles are LIFE asking you to wake up, be on your toes, be more creative. obstacles are LIFE's way of telling us to jump over theres alannd higher, greener and fresher. obstacles are LIFE's way of telling us that we deserve much more [Contributed by jyotsana]

• I think an obstacle is in the mind ..It doesnt really exist in a material sense [Contributed by Lakshmi]

• ;-)
  I thrive on obstacles I guess
  :D [Contributed by Macadamia The Nut]

• For me OBSTACLE
  is an Absolutly Tackable thing.
  some times we do feel like its enuff nothing cant be done but your parents , freinds or even god helps you in one or other way.
  
  life wudnt have been xiting without it .. all good cant be digestable [Contributed by Subu's Blog]

I realized that a question can have many correct answers ...its depend on how we look on to the matter. Isn't it ?

So what 's your definition about obstacle ? I will be waiting to hear from you .

Till then take care

ref: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/obstacle

Untitled!!!

prologue :

This is my first effort to write something which I have never written earlier. I can not guarantee whether you will like it or not. But then I thought why not give it a try .And you all are there to support me. :)

I am not giving it any title …..I leave that task to you all.

It’s always light behind,
Just we fail to look forward.
It’s always peace there,
Just courageously face turbulence.

It’s always good there,
Just we need to support right.
It’s always bright there,
Just need to defeat the fear beneath.

Its always love there,
Just we need to think selflessly.
Its always home there,
Where togetherness dwells “happily ever after”

…….. And that is what I call
Salvation of a true heart

Happy holidaying

Spending sometime off the routine,makes me happier.And as all of you will understand that i even don't blog in-routine [:P]

I visited my page couple of time and was very happy to know that my readers have become my friends and are with me always.[note of thanks!!!]


I had a three day short holiday and i enjoyed every bit of it.
Wanna share something.......

My perfect holiday-rules:

1. Never miss an opportunity...
2. Get good company
3. Don't forget credit cards ...I can leave anything else behind .
4. Take rest as much as I can .
5. Keep electronic gadgets out of my reach.
6. Cook Delicious food(err i think they are delicious)using recipe book.
7. Watch movies regardless of where ever I am.


So in a nutshell.My holiday means : EAT.SLEEP.MOVIE.SLEEP.EAT....BUT NEVER EVER THINK

I will be waiting to know what your holiday means ....
till then stay happy-shappy

“HAPPY-ING”

Before all of my readers conclude that I am out of blog sphere, let me confirm that
I was doing a month long research for a war winning weapon to achieve happiness. And I think I got something to share.....…

Happiness is a too big idea to keep it within oneself. No one can be really happy if the environment around is not happy. So to win the war of achieving happiness I present my next idea.

The new idea is named “happy-ing”.

“happy-ing” is a collection of unique ways to create happiness around you.


I am citing few examples with probable implications. I think they can be adopted and modified accordingly ……..
(Please don’t laugh at them even though some of them may sound weird. Trust me sometime weird ideas are worth trying)

1. Do you know your milkman’s name? Or the guy who gives newspaper in morning?

Get up early. Wish them, and see the bright genuine smile on their face. It can make your day!!!! This is “happy-ing”

2. Many of us go for a walk in park or jog.(some though walk in dream like me:))
While jogging in a park to test “happy-ing”, I smiled at an elderly couple. The way they waved back …..suddenly I got some new friends.
Now I go for daily walk

3. There is a lady in my work place. In my entire tenure here I have not seen her smiling or chatting with anybody. People call her unhappy soul. Decidedly I greeted her in the morning. Her reply was cold. However I continued just for sake of “happy-ing” her (and it was really tough!!!).Then one day I had an issue in her department. To my surprise she helped in……
When I turned to thank, she patted me cordially ……WOW it worked!!!


After these incidents, now I wear a happy attitude and go “happy-ing” others.

So in short “happy-ing” is spreading the aura of happiness around ……

Don’t think much …just go “HAPPY-ING”

“Expression required:”–URGENTLY

Happiness is not granted…
There is a war to get it. I have one weapon which may help to win the war (at least worth trying).The weapon is called “Expression”.Right expression expressed well in right time can do wonder.

So express right away when you have one. Life is too short to keep expression pending…

Surprisingly the word expression consist of “Express” which also means fast (like courier, logistics etc) so expression must have to do something with spontaneously

I have seen people, who wished,

“Had I said sorry”, “if I had said then - I miss you” and also like “if I had said -don’t go” …wish I said “love you”…….

But when they realize it finally it is already too late …

Very few lucky get the second chance!!!!

I realized to open up the gate of expression requires lot of effort and that is because you really need to surrender yourself to your inner self. Am still fighting the war where sometime I manage to win and that is a beautiful self where I can truly relate myself …..

I guess may be that’s why I like the punch line “express yourself”.

So what‘s the wait for? If you are irritate …express that ….if you are happy …your glowing smiley face should indicate that …And if you are in love let the person know and if you are sad let your tears strengthen you ; revealing oneself is an art and not hard to learn it trust me.

Because more we express ourselves …more we get to know of ourselves and more immense potential we get hold of …..

Waiting for the right time?

Frankly speaking the right time is “right now”……

"Express –to show, manifest, or reveal”: dictionary.com"

AM TAGGED .......

Okay !!! now am to this tagging area .And i never thought it will be so beautiful experience .
Sucharita and Sidhubaba tagged me . Wow!!

so as per rules am posting the next three lines from page 123 of the book :"Love Stories" (by Eric Seagal)

"
that his hair had grown grayish(and perhaps thinner) in these three years.
'Come in son,'he said.I could not read the tone .
"


so i don't know what happens next (i hope soon to reach that page !!)

well I am Tagging My Five favourite Blog Freinds ...attached together with thoughts and words .....

1) SUCHARITA
2) JYOTSANA
3) ADITYA
4) SIDHUBABA
5) JACKIE

Am happy to find these wonderful people here .

Some unanswered questions

I explored some interesting stuff and would like to share with you all……


1) Strings: what make art beautiful? Is it the sketch or the colors?


2) Who for whom? Is it children creating mother or mother creating children?


3) Who leads what? Is it the traveler leading the way or way leading travelers?


4) Who exists? Is it relatives for relation or relation for relatives?


5) Beauty: Is it beauty for eyes or eyes for beauty?


6) Love: Is it love for each other? or each other for love

Finally will like to conclude with one last quest .

7) life: Is it life for living or living for life ?

The questions are endless…..
But does that require any answers?

I think some questions care for no answers….And that makes our life more humane .

What say guys?