Wednesday, June 11, 2008

“Expression required:”–URGENTLY


Happiness is not granted
There is a war to get it. I have one weapon which may help to win the war (at least worth trying).The weapon is called “Expression”.Right expression expressed well in right time can do wonder.

So express right away when you have one. Life is too short to keep expression pending…

Surprisingly the word expression consist of “Express” which also means fast (like courier, logistics etc) so expression must have to do something with spontaneously

I have seen people, who wished,

“Had I said sorry”, “if I had said then - I miss you” and also like “if I had said -don’t go” …wish I said “love you”…….

But when they realize it finally it is already too late …

Very few lucky get the second chance!!!!

I realized to open up the gate of expression requires lot of effort and that is because you really need to surrender yourself to your inner self. Am still fighting the war where sometime I manage to win and that is a beautiful self where I can truly relate myself …..

I guess may be that’s why I like the punch line “express yourself”.

So what‘s the wait for? If you are irritate …express that ….if you are happy …your glowing smiley face should indicate that …And if you are in love let the person know and if you are sad let your tears strengthen you ; revealing oneself is an art and not hard to learn it trust me.

Because more we express ourselves …more we get to know of ourselves and more immense potential we get hold of …..

Waiting for the right time?

Frankly speaking the right time is “right now”……

"Express –to show, manifest, or reveal”: dictionary.com"

49 comments:

The Runner, Dreamer, Observer, Seeker said...

You are right...come to think of it, expression requires a great amount of effort and guts!

Impressionist said...

I dont think anybody could have said it any better! :)
Sorry I was busy with exams, so couldnt read ur blog! :)
Nice blog u've got here!

-I

chhavi said...

right time is right now huh ........
so here i m expressing myself through words beautiful,marvelous
your blogs are inspiring
keep up

its_me said...

i completely agree express yourself rite away....but u know some times it can even bring smiles when u hold some of your expressions for the people u love....

being a bad cook ...people made me smile many times holding there xpressns.......
:)

Casperbaba said...

aaahhhh!!! thats soo refreshing....so profound... so true....
the medium of xpression.. words!

i m not feeling much these days. i have realised the importance of being emotionally and spiritually stagnant. while working your way through the mad world.
'sthir'!! 'shaant'!!

some beautifull and inspiring words.. :)

riM said...

I specially liked the first line...it has a solid Expression of aggression.

Yes, I know I have missed lots of chances to express myself in the right time.May be I will never get that second chance. I regret for that.
But, on the other hand I have regret for things I have expressed or said that I shouldn't have.And may be I will never get a second chance to mend the damage.

The problem is not expressing the right things in the right time; but deciding what is right and when is the right time.

By the way I am very much eager to see how u look in a Irritated face.

;)

Buzzz said...

hey Sayani, i hv been reading your posts and they are addictive

backpakker said...

so true..i always express the wrong things at the wrong time

Lakshmi

deepak said...

can i express my love for gillu???????????????

life is good said...

sorry i was out for some time. u did again a great job and thanks for tagging?? me.
however i dont know what to do now plz help this poor.

Macadamia The Nut said...

You are so right!! I blew one BIG chance some time back to say something to somebody. And she is no more now. I think I'll regret it as long as I live.

So these days.. it's Expressions all the way :)

Lovely post

(¯`•._.•[Raaji]•._.•´¯) said...

awesome! My motto exactly.
I so firmly believe on expressing oneself.
I couldnt have articulated it better! :-)

Nitu said...

You have articulated so well. Wonderful thought again.

Sucharita Sarkar said...

another lovely thoughtful post! express your expressions expressly - how true is that! It is definitely important to release our emotions at that moment, otherwise the pressure cooker may burst, may it not?

Stacey said...

How very true, expressing ourself is very important, from how we exspress through talking or how we exspress through gestures...

Very well written post, take care :-)

Shekhar said...

Sorry but presenting something contrary to what are saying...

Its kinda funny. I expressed. Got disbelief in return. I have got a second chance. I expressed again. Feels like there is disbelief again. I am sure what I expressed was true and pure, but still...

Indrani said...

So true Sayani, one must express. And expressing the right thing at right time is something one learns by experience.

A very well written post, you have expressed well.

Cinder-Single said...

Yes!! There is NO time table to wait on to express oneself!!

I have missed out on a lot from not expressing myself!! This was great!!!

Cinder-Single said...

I wanted you to know I blogged rolled ya!!!

AnGeliC dEmOn- said...

Wohoo!!

Lovely "expression"

*applauds*

thanks for visiting my blog.!

Buzzz said...

hey sayani awaiting energetic new post

K.C. said...

You are so right. In the moment, JUST DO IT! Especially if it is good. If you have something nice to say to someone, PLEASE, say it. It is done so seldomly and it can completely change someone's life..

That sounds so cheesy, and so simplistic and so unreal, but it is completely true...

LOVED THIS POST! Kayce

arunabh said...

Express yourself.
Just do it!
Awesome taglines
But you have used them really well.
What you have just said holds so true everywhere. You just got me thinking :)

sukku said...

Very nice. Thanks for sharing.

sukku

Sayani said...

The Runner, Dreamer, Observer, Seeker said @ yes u r right ...sometime it requires so much of guts

Impressionist@ thanks for inspiration and as well as the complement

chhavi@ thanks dear

its_me @ but then it is in itself an expression ain't they ?


Casperbaba @ i know how hard time sometime turns and still faith of good keep us going :) take care.

riM @well thanks for your comments and visiting here

Buzzz@hey there thanks for all you have said here ..am thinking soon i will post . i hope to keep up the expectation :)

backpakker@ hi there thanks for dropping by ....i really loved your space


deepak@ sure there is no harm in expressing anything ....

life is good @ hey see my comments and u will know how to do that ...

Macadamia The Nut @ i wish you get the chance again...don't worry :)

(¯`•._.•[Raaji]•._.•´¯)@ it is really so nice to get people with same ideology :)

Nitu @ thanks dear ...and dropping your comments

Sucharita Sarkar@ you are so right and very observational regarding pressure cooker (;P) i never cud think that way

Stacey @ thanks for motivating and complementing ...

Shekar @ but i think you must be contended at least b'coz u expressed ...u are free from your side isn't it ?

Indrani @ hey thanks for visiting and i m happy you found it enjoyable

Cinder-Single@thanks am flattered...i love ur sense of humor so much ...take care

K.C.@ thanks for those beautiful sharing ....am so happy to blogworld for i ve found so many good people here

arunabh @welcome and thanks for dropping your valuable comments here .hope to see you ..

sukku @ hi there welcome here...hope to see you again ...stay tuned ..

Thank you ALL!!!

~nm said...

For a mommy, expressing has another meaning too! *wink* *wink* :)

Mystic Margarita said...

So true - emotions should be expressed as and when one experiences them - repressed emotions are the root cause of pshychological problems. Beautifully written :)

sid said...

Phew that was sooo deeply thought...talk of the power of expression-your post itself!!!...i never looked at expression the way you did..."express"-the ability to be fast with it-great outlook and makes one introspect for sure...neat piece!

Aleta said...

I like this post very much. My father has always told me that I "wear my heart on my sleeve."

Expressing myself is not an option. I never learned to hide my emotions. My face shows it, my voice changes, my eyes, my body language. My emotions are easy to read.

I remember one time I was with my cousins in Maryland, visiting with them. We were in a gift shop and there was a cross stitch pattern that I thought was beautiful. My cousin wanted to buy it for me, but I didn't want her to spend the money. She said, "If you had the money, would you buy it?" I knew that if I said I would buy it, then she'd get it for me, so I lied and said, "No, I wouldn't buy it."

At that moment, I literally felt my face flicker the emotion and my cousin said, "THAT WAS A LIE!" She was right and she bought it for me no matter my protests of her kindness.

Emotions are meant to be shared, as long as we keep other people in mind as well.

Shekhar said...

Not really free sayani... Its just that if it always had to be disbelief then why did I ever make the effort to express it again. :(

Buzzz said...

hey sayani, u dont visit me ? i hv blogrolled you.

Sach said...

Well said! Right time is "right now"
I wonder why many people cudn't understand this...

nice blog btw :)

wolf counsellor said...

yeah, a large chunk of communication is non-verbal and at times unintentional

Piscean Angel said...

U've been tagged. :)

Na.Su.Krishnan said...

Express in Expression..Never noticed!

Buzzz said...

you are tagged gurl :)

jyotsana said...

hi sayani nice thoughtprovoking post. most of us r afraid to express ourselves and the softer emotions suffer the most. theres a word in hindi which is "sahaj"...ur post inspires for that sahaj living, isnt it?
and i m back from a vacationing in maharashtra...was touchd when i came back and saw that u had enquired about my well being
much affection

Dawn....सेहर said...

Very true the time is NOW :)

Thank you for evrything dear :)
Good post kepp writing
Cheers

twicedoubleyou said...

Hi, great blog and beautiful articles...Thanks for visiting my blog,it was a heartwarming surprise!
Since I'm not so expressive, reading your text makes me trying to let my tears go whenever I feel so and send some extra smiles...

jyotsana said...

hi sayani seems its ur time now to do the vanishing act. hope u r fine and just enjoying some kinda vacations somewhere.
xo xo

Megha said...

ufff...how could u think so deep...i wish i had the art of thinking and expressing like u.
ur post has forced me to think about how many times i hv lost a person or situation just b'coz of my shyness to express myself.
Bt u kno wat sometimes its better not to express ur feelings..............

I Walk Alone!!! said...

Sometimes its better that feelings are left unexpressed... Especially when you know the result is going to be pain for all...

I Walk Alone!!! said...

No updates for long. You seem to be on a long vacation :)

Avalanche- said...

Nice blog! Keep them coming!

Sutta said...

Very true!
This is like sucha positive blog.
Appreciate it. :)

Casperbaba said...

i think... its been a while now that u have been seen!

SwAtI said...

Hi Sayani!

Really liked the post.. n its title as well!!

Dawn....सेहर said...

Very true and agree with every bit of it
Thanks for sharing a good thought
Cheers

Sach said...

I completely agree!
All we need to do is *express* and express right...right words n time as well...